YOUR VALENTINE TREATS


Dedicating this to those in love, those who are searching for love, and to those that are not thinking about love (may you give love a chance).
NB: There are three different posts here, the first for the ladies (you know ladies first), the second for the guys and the third for all.


IF A MAN WANTS YOU…
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve. Then heck no, you can’t be friends. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along. Then he probably is.
Don’t stay because you think “it will get better”. You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behaviour. Change comes from within.
Don’t ever make him feel he is more important than you are… even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more, nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man. Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat.
All men are not dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending… compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships… There is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to complete you. A relationship consists of two whole individual. Look for someone complementary, not supplementary.
Dating is fun; even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always knows where you are and you’re always readily available to him- he takes you for granted.
Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar and get to know others.
GIVE HER A SURPRISE.
Ø  Send flowers or a gift to work. Catch her when she least expect it! It will make colleagues envious and let your love know you were thinking about her.
Ø  Show up at work. Instead of having something delivered, bring it by yourself. Or show up at lunchtime and ask her out to an impromptu lunch.
Ø  Plan a trip and don’t tell her where you’re going. Take a day or a weekend and plan a trip to a place she has always wanted to go- an amusement park, a bed and a breakfast, or the closest city.
Ø  Collect pictures of the two of you and create a photo album or a CD-ROM showcasing your memories. Alternatively, create a photo collage and frame it as a gift. It will show her that the memories you share mean so much to you.
Ø  Pamper her by banishing her to where you will receive massages side by side (a spa). Whether it’s one service, or a day of relaxation and/or beauty, this will be a surprise that will last for a long time.
Ø  Take pen to paper and, using her as your muse, try to create a few lines describing your love. It need not rhyme, just be sure to let your feelings come out.
Culled: www.mouse-bola-bola.blogspot.com

VALENTINE WEEK
Many people don’t actually know that February 14th is just the end of a long full week of celebrating love. Did you? It actually runs from 7th to 14th of February of every year. Here’s a full list of each day.
February 7th- ROSE DAY.
February 8th- PROPOSE DAY.
February 9th- CHOCOLATE DAY.
February 10th- TEDDY (BEAR) DAY.
February 11th- PROMISE DAY.
February 12th- HUGS DAY.
February 13th- KISS DAY.
February 14th- VALENTINE DAY.

REMEMBER EVERYDAY IS VALENTINE IF YOU ARE WITH THE RIGHT PERSON. VAL OR NO VAL, THE HEART TRULY KNOWS WHERE IT BELONGS.

Comments

  1. Adewumi13 February 2018 at 05:16

    Just Inspiring!!!! Nothing else to say. God Bless the work

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